At the Muslimi Lifestyle Expo, Shaykh Musleh Khan delivered a powerful reminder on the realities of marriage and how to navigate its challenges. Drawing on decades of experience in marriage counseling, he outlined three common problems that can undermine relationships if left unaddressed: lack of communication, imbalance, and unchecked anger.
Shaykh Musleh emphasized that marriage is not easy and requires sacrifice, patience, and maturity. He explained that Islam views marriage as a sacred contract, one that carries profound responsibility. Without effective communication, even small disagreements can escalate, while open dialogue rooted in respect can restore harmony and build trust. He also warned against cultural expectations overshadowing Islamic principles, noting that couples often struggle when one spouse imposes their upbringing or traditions instead of working together to create balance.
On the issue of anger, Shaykh Musleh highlighted the Prophet Muhammad’s ﷺ advice to control emotions before they destroy relationships. He reminded the audience that true strength lies in restraint and choosing peace over escalation. Using examples from the Qur’an and Sunnah, he showed how patience, humility, and understanding are essential tools for a lasting union.
Concluding his talk, Shaykh Musleh described marriage as a journey with one destination: Jannah. Couples may have different approaches, but aligning their direction with the Qur’an and Sunnah ensures success. His message was clear: marriage is a test and an opportunity for growth, but with communication, balance, and control over anger, it can become a source of peace and closeness to Allah ﷻ.